Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Fear of Rejection

When I was a little girl I wanted to be friends with one of my classmates named Melissa. I use to try so hard to be her friend with no success. I would ask her to come to my house and she would reject me. I would go home and cry to my mom about how much I wanted to be Melissa's friend.

Now, when ever I ask someone to do something and they can't, I feel like they are rejecting me. Even though they have a valid reason for not hanging out with me.

I need to remember that people are not rejecting me but that they have schedules of they're own. Plus I have been one who has rejected people before too, I am not blameless to this situation. Sometimes you just don't want to be close friends with certain people.

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